​If only I had known things would end this way
Would I do it all over again?
At first it’s hard to say…
But then I recall that old cliché
And as if from the sky my answer falls…
“For it is better to have Loved & Lost,
​Than to never have loved at all.”

-excerpt from "A Poem for Malachi" by Jennifer “Xzotiqa” Allums  c2011 (Read full poem here)

The mission of Loved & Lost is to help families of angel babies cope with early farewells. 


We provide information and resources to support those who have experienced pregnancy and/or infant loss. Our goal is to help mamas of angel babies recognize that they are not alone, to promote open conversation about this type of loss, and to provide awareness, knowledge, and strategies to those who desire to help a loved one who is experiencing a pregnancy/infant loss.